Wednesday, June 4, 2008

Coming Home









As the saying goes all good things must come to an end.............and so it had to be with our year of adventure. We finished off with a canoe trip down the Brulle river in Wisconsin (a place James had visited as a child) and a stop in northern Minnesota to see our new friends Bob, Linda & Jeff. James wanted to do some last mintute fishing and they promised to hook him up. I quickly realized that in this part of the country they give you your birth certificate along with your fishing license. We had a classic 'Grumpy Old Men' moment when Bob asked Jeff if they were going fishing in Merril lake the next day and Jeff became very agitated and told Bob to lower his voice so Walleye Dan wouldn't overhear. The fishing ended up not being so good because the weather was a little cold, but the company was great. They really rolled out the red carpet for their new friends from the south even making us a cool sign for the hacienda.



Last Wednesday we began the sad trek home and were welcomed back into the sweltering heat Thursday night. James waited until 9:00 Friday morning before going to work. Nice to see he really got the perspective he needed from this year off. It has been a whirlwind since then. My sister Juli is here with her family, my sister Janet just had a little girl (Samantha Karen 8lbs 1 oz), we have a foster teenage boy moving in with us for the summer, and we are trying to move back into our house. We are still sleeping in the RV. I'm not sure if I haven't been able to get the bedroom together because I haven't had the time or because I haven't had the desire. Sleeping in the house means it really is over, I'm not sure if I'm ready to admit that. James is keeping a watchful eye to make sure I don't sink into another depression but I think I will be okay. He didn't work Sunday so he could get the pool ready, so that will be my anit-depressant for the summer.


Besides the accomplishment of still being married after living in a 26 ft. home for a year we have also been to 33 states, 2 other countries and 20 national parks. We drove over 35,000 miles and stayed in 90 campsites; including driveways, rest areas, Wal-Mart parking lots, one alley and a ferry dock. We have biked over 300 miles and hiked almost 300 (James swears it had to be more). We have taken over 3,000 pictures (anyone up for a slide show?) and made a ton of memories.



It has been really fun writing this blog and James has enjoyed it so much he is even thinking about taking a writing class at the University this fall. Thank you so much for all of the great comments and encouragement. We have loved the feedback from everyone, but I feel a special shout out should go to our 3 most faithful commentors Tracy, Janet and Tuna. Tracy, thank you again for letting us stay with you and I hope we continue to keep up in emails, we will have to play Balderdash with Tuna the next time you are here so we can have an acronym showdown. Janet, I could say anything about you because you probably won't look at a computer for another year or so, but you know I love you. Tuna, thank you for taking the time out of your busy schedule to faithfully read and comment. I don't know if James would have been able to enjoy himself as much this year if he was worried about things at home, thank you for relieving that burden from him.

We have realized alot of things this year....... if you burn a pie in the RV the smell will linger for weeks, Wisconsn has the most expensive state campgrounds, RV toilets never clog, never hike on a trail in New Mexico labeled difficult, you can survive with only 5 pairs of shoes, Spam is not a childhood food you should revisit, rednecks do not live only in the south, laundry mats are great places to people watch, the backup camera really is a marriage saver, but the most important thing we have realized is how blessed we are to have each other along with such good friends & family.


We plan to continue our adventures, they will just have to be a little closer to home for awhile!
Love, Kim & James

7 comments:

Unknown said...

i could cry. it is so bittersweet! I too don't want your adventure to end, but you have so many wonderful people to be coming home too, that it is a blessing to be there as well. I am totally up for the slide show when I'm next in town. James and Forrest can go fishing, I'm sure there will be a volunteer to watch annabelle, and you and I can curl up with root beer and snacks.

now as I understand it you are the sole kin around that new baby with a digital camera, so get crackin' and send some pics of little samantha!!! Hopefully we will see you guys sooner, but if not - JUNE '09 IN YOSEMITE!!!!

xoxooxoxox, T. and thanks for the shout-out. my pleasure. and for the road... mpojqk....(why do I always get q?)

many possible outcomes, jack, queen, king.

seems I could have done better, but I'm all out.

Anonymous said...

Very nice wrap up! I was wondering what was happening with the newly home! You had the adventure of a lifetime, more than most could ever hope for, and it seems to have been very good for the soul! I’m glad everything turned out so well. I have very much enjoyed reading your blog; you both did a great job with it! You should continue because life is always an adventure…that’s what I’ve heard anyway. Welcome Home!

Anonymous said...

Well, for starters CONGRATS JANET!! So happy for you!! I am sorry that this has come to an end for you guys, I am sorry James HAS to get right back into the thick of it, I am sorry that Kim will experience the hvac summer widow phenomenon. But what really pains me, is that James has been back 10 days, and I only got to see him for a 35 minute lunch. Big brained brothers must unite and attack this work thing in a new light. Now I know that the toll on oneself and those that are close to him are enormous, the free time sacrifice has an accumulative effect on ones sanity, only when the damage is done do you realize. so I hope the one thing that came home with you guys is a need for time to ponder.
And I think Donna should get honerable mention for most loyal commentor. And as fate/destiny would have it I have an absolutley awesome word verification.. this is no lie folks...tsyssu so one last time before balderdash....
Tuna says yall should stay ummkayyy.

Jeff said...

More posts!

Update us on something else, James!

Anonymous said...

I still feel so honored that we were one of your stops on your year-long adventure! A super belated thanks on your much appreciated thank-you card, by the way! I've been thinking about you and hoping that the year back at home has been a great one. We'll be in Fay. the day after Christmas for about a week and would LOVE to get together!!! I can't seem to find your e-mail address, so please e-mail me at meddersfam@embarqmail.com. Much love! Lisa

abbyrose said...

hey kim and james!!!!!!

wow - it's been almost a year since we met you in costa rica, at selva verde. do you remember us? abby and jeff. we got yelled at (or LOUDLY WHISPERED AT) by the lady who's mom we were apparently keeping up?

well we came home and promptly lost your contact info, got back to regular life and la dee da.

just now, we were sitting here reminiscing about our honeymoon and thinking about you guys and i thought "hey! they had a blog!" so i did some googling and lookie here!! we found you!!

anyway, we'd love to get in touch and see how you guys are doing. from what you wrote back in june, so far so good!

we're all good here in NH - looking forward (?) to a huge snowstorm tomorrow.

anyhow - please give us a shout out sometime when you can!!!!


lots of love, and happy holidays!
*abby

abbyrose said...

PS: i meant to say:

love abby AND JEFF!

my bad.